Download “Enjoy Your Life” by Dr. Muhammad Abd-ur-Rahman Al-Arifi for FREE. Thought-provoking anecdotes from the life of the author. The aim of the book is to train the reader to enjoy living his life by practicing various. Enj oy Your Life Dr. Muhammad bin ‘Abd al-Rahman al-‘Arifi Published by DARUSSALAM Contents Publisher’s Foreword 10 Introduction 17 1. They did not .

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Why do we search for skills? Improve yourself 28 s. Do not cry over spilt milk 32 6. Be unique 35 7. Who is the most beloved to you? Enjoy the skills 48 9. With the poor 52 With women 55 1 1. With slaves and servants 66 With adversaries 69 With animals 78 is. A hundred ways to win people’s hearts – 82 Purify your intention for the sake of Allah 86 Choose the right topics Be kind at the first meeting I 17 People are like the minerals of the earth Mu’awiyah’s hair 1 39 The keys to hearts 1 45 Be concerned about others 1 54 Show them that you want the best Remember names Be observant and complimentary Only pass comment on what is good Do not interfere in matters that How to deal with a meddlesome person Do not be dictatorial Hold the stick from the middle 2 1 5 7d j1.

Do not curse him because he drinks alcohol! If what you desire does not happen, We can disagree and still be brothers! Gentleness only beautifies 35? Between the living and the dead Make your tongue sweet Be concise and do not argue Do not care about what people say Smile and keep smiling The red lines Keeping a secret Fulfilling people’s needs Do not burden yourself with what you Who kicked the cat?

To worship in secret 43 I Take them out of the ditch Looking after one’s appearance Steadiness on principles Forgiving others Control your tongue Wait and do not interrupt!

Charity before consultation Be brave and start from now! May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon the one after whom there is no other prophet. As a seventeen year old, I came across a book called, ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie, which I found to be quite excellent and which I subsequently read sev- eral times.


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The author suggested that one should read the book once a month, which is exactly what I did. I began to apply its principles when dealing with others and witnessed amazing re- sults. Carnegie would often mention a principle and then cite vari- ous yor of this by way of incidents related to prominent figures, such as Roosevelt, Lincoln, Joseph, and so on.

I contemplated and realised that the author’s only goal was to attain worldly happiness.

What if he were to have known Islam and the etiquettes it teaches? He would surely have achieved eternal as well as ephemeral happiness! How about if he were to have turned uour wonderful interpersonal skills into worship, with which he would have drawn closer to Allah?

When I later discov- ered that Carnegie had committed suicide, I knew for certain that his book, despite its merits, had not benefitted him.

I then began to search our own history bg discovered that the life of Allah’s Messenger 31, his Companions, and anecdotes of some of the prominent men of this ummah are more than enough for us to learn lessons from. From then on, I began to au- thor this book concerning the art of dealing with others. Hence, this book is not the product of a month or a nejoy toil.

Rather, it is the result of twenty years of serious study.

Although Allah has blessed me with the ability to have pro- duced twenty books so far, some of which have been printed in their millions, I nevertheless believe that the most beloved, precious and beneficial of all ykur them to me is this book, which I wrote with ink blended with my blood; I poured out my soul and squeezed out my memories as I wrote these lines.

I have written these words from the very depths of my heart so it may penetrate the heart of the reader, and would be delighted to learn that he or she has indeed implemented its teachings, experienced enjy improvement in his or her skills, and therefore actually began enjoying life.

If he or she were tour then thankfully write a message expressing his or her views and feelings honestly and send it to me via email or SMS, I would be grateful for this kindness and remember to pray for him or her in their absence. I pray to Allah that the reader benefits from these pages, and that He enuoy my efforts purely for His sake.


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Written by the one who is always praying for what is best for you. Muhammad bin ‘Abd al-Rahman al-‘Arifi 1 They did not benefit I remember once receiving a message on my mobile phone which read: I said, “I am sorry, I didn’t understand your ques- tion. Can you please repeat your question? What is the ruling on suicide?

I said to him, “OK. Why do you want to commit suicide? People do not love me. In fact, I am an utter failure This is a problem with many people. Why do some of us feel They did not benefit Topic No. Why do we look at those at the peak of the mountain while thinking of ourselves as unworthy of reaching that peak as they have, or even climbing it as they did?

The one frightened of climbing mountains forever lives in the ditches Do you wish to know who will not benefit from this book, or any other similar book, for that matter?

It is the unfortunate one who surrenders to his own errors and becomes satisfied with his limited skills, and says. I have become too used to it now; I cannot change my ways.

Everyone knows this is how I am. I can never speak like Khalid does, or have a cheerful countenance like Ahmad has, or be universally loved the way Ziyad is.

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That would be impossible. Most of those present were people with the usual skills and abilities. The old man was busy speaking to whoever was sitting next to him. He did not stand out in the crowd for any reason, except by virtue of his old age.

I delivered a lecture and during it mentioned a verdict given by the eminent Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Aziz bin Baz. We used to study together in a mosque under Shaykh Muhammad bin Ibrahim, about forty years ago. He was delighted to have accompanied a successful man once in his life. I said to myself,”Poor man!

Why did you not become as successful as Ibn Baz? If you knew the way to success, why did you not pursue it? They did not benefit Topic No.